Amakosa ababyeyi bakora agatuma abana biyumva nkaho badakunzwe bishobora gutuma batekereza kwiyahura

1: Kubura urukundo n’ubwitaho
Umwana wese akeneye kumva akundwa, yitabwaho, kandi yemerwa uko ari. Iyo ababyeyi batamwereka urukundo, ntibamuganiriza neza, ntibamwereka ko bamushimira cyangwa bamwishimira, atangira kwiheba no kumva ko adafite agaciro.

2: Ihohoterwa n’ibihano bikabije
Kumukubita buri gihe, kumutuka, kumutesha agaciro mu ruhame, kumutera ubwoba… byose bitera ubwoba n’agahinda mu mwana. Ahinduka uwifunga, utinya kuvuga cyangwa kwisanzura, bityo agakura yifitemo intimba.

3: Kumugereranya n’abandi
Iyo umwana ahora abwirwa ko abandi bamurusha ubwenge, ubwiza cyangwa imyitwarire, atangira kwifata nk’udashoboye. Yumva ntacyo amaze, akitakariza icyizere, bikamutera kwigunga no kwiheba.

4: Kutamwumva no kumucecekesha
Umwana agira ibyiyumvo nk’abandi. Iyo ababyeyi batamwumva cyangwa bakamubuza kuvuga ibimubabaje, bimwigarurira mu mutima bikamubabaza cyane. Iyo ntacyo atura, bimukomeretsa kurushaho.

5: Amakimbirane mu rugo
Iyo ababyeyi barwana, batukana cyangwa bakabana nabi, umwana abibona cyangwa akabyumva. Ibyo bimuhungabanya, bikamutera agahinda kenshi, gutinya ejo hazaza no kwiheba.

6: Guhatira umwana ibyo adashoboye
Gushaka ko ahora ari intangarugero, atsinda cyane, akora byose neza, bishobora kumugiraho igitutu. Iyo atabigezeho, yumva atabaye uwo ababyeyi bashaka, bigatuma yikocora no kwiheba.

7: Kutamureka ngo akine no gusabana
Abana bakeneye gukina no kugira umwanya wo kwishima. Iyo bamaze igihe mu mashuri gusa, badafite akanya ko gusabana no kunezerwa, ubuzima bwabo butangira kubabera umutwaro.

8: Gutesha agaciro ibitekerezo bye
Iyo umwana agize icyo avuga, ababyeyi bakamwima amatwi, bakamuseka cyangwa bakamuhinyura, atangira kumva ko nta gaciro afite. Ibi bimutera kwiheba no gutinya kuvuga.

9: Gushingira urukundo ku musaruro
Hari ababyeyi bereka abana urukundo gusa iyo bakoze neza. Iyo umwana atsinzwe cyangwa yakoze ikosa, bamuhinduka. Ibi bituma yumva ko agomba “guhora atsinda” kugira ngo akundwe, bikamunaniza.

10: Kutamubera icyitegererezo

Ababyeyi bavuga neza ariko bagakora ibibi, baba bigisha umwana ibintu bimucanganyiriza. Umwana nk’uyu akura adafite icyerekezo, akibaza icyo yakwigiraho, agakurana agahinda n’akajagari k’amarangamutima.

Inama:
Urukundo, kwihangana, kumva umwana no kumuba hafi ni yo nzira yo kumurinda agahinda gakabije no kumufasha gukura neza.